How do you feel about rope play in the bedroom (light bondage, submission)?

Question

When and how is the best/most proper time to bring this topic up? To jump into a relationship and wait, or be up front in the very beginning of talking to someone new? Clearly it's something I enjoy, and I would hate to get into a serious relationship with someone who has a distaste for it or even worse freaks out about it. To have someone stop all communication after commiting so much time to start a relationship with each other, such a waste. Pass along your own thoughts on this.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If it's something important to you, regardless of what 'it' is, you will need to discuss it with your partner at some point. Whether or not that's early or late into the relationship will depend on how you communicate with each other. I would say it'd be safer to ere on the cautious side when broaching a subject as such, and if she ends up loving the idea, then you seem adorable for not wanting to be too pushy. Good luck!

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

That doesn't turn me on, coz I prefer to be overpowered by his strong arms during role- play. I'd rather he pinned me with his hands than ties.

Using ties makes it seem like he's not strong enough to hold me down himself , that would be a turn off 😂 tying and binding would make him less dominant - In my opinion lol

purplechan · Answer

It's ok to say it early, but not on the first date, you know...

Jaded5990 · Answer

i think it should be brought up early, it's just better in my opinion to not be disappointed if somebody you really liked looked down on it or doesn't enjoy it

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

I am fine with this as long as he is the one who's tied. I am not on the submissive side.

ColoradoChick84 · Answer

I love bondage

momo770 · Answer

I've never tried it, have no desire to try it but what sort of understand.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i've been watching that genre of porn since i was 13 and i wrote erotica about it but i definitely don't want to take part in it. i've seen a LOT.

NaughtySarah · Answer

Love doing BDSM with my boyfriend

Sandy12345hjul · Answer

I love it

Funnyrealist2 · Answer

I think that is something you should talk about after the first couple times you have sex with each other. It could be as easy as introducing a little bit of your pleasure into a sexual encounter and just seeing how your partner reacts and see how excited he gets fulfilling your small requests before you hit him with the embarrassing stuff.