Seriously, that is very frustrating and unfair, I hate how girls are not as initially attracted to looks, not as picky and choosy about looks as guys are, is it wrong of me that I wish that girls would just like me for my body and looks, and not for who I am? not for my personality? That's what I really hate about girls, about women, the fact that they generally go for personality and social skills more, conversation skills, high social status, confidence, attitude, mentality, way of thinking, a guy who has passion and drive, because confidence is mental, etc. Because it is a lot easier to attract people with your looks and body than it is with your social status, or just status, confidence, attitude, mentality. Us guys always have to worry about the things we say to girls literally.
Why are girls not as visual as guys are? why are girls not attracted to looks and body as much as guys are?
What Girls Said 9
Maybe YOU have to worry baout what you say to girls but most of the guys I know just say what they want, if you can carry a casual conversation with a guy why can't you with a girl? It sounds to me like you want girls to be shallow pieces of ass who don't give a sh*t about who you are, who doesn't understand you, who doesn't care if you're angry, excited, sad, high, sober, or even freaking suicidal! That's not a relationship (which is surprisingly what almost all girls want in a boyfriend) that's a f*** buddy, and a lousy one at that. Being visually appealing is very easy to do since humans are drawn to what their eyes find beautiful. You may be looking in the wrong places for girls then if you have to rely purely on your physical appearance instead of your presence. We like companionship more than we like a pretty face.1
We do that because we think about being with a guy for a while and not only making out, so the guy should be much more than only looks...But we do fell attracted to looks to, but that is not enough to fall in love...
I don't think it's harder to have more than looks...
I don't think looking good it's enough for guys either why would you choose one and not another, just because she is prettier?
That's too shallow0
for me its because a lot of your typical "good looking" guys are WAY to into themselves and could care less about a real relationship.
So what you say is that girl's just have to be hot and they can get any guy they want, I don't think so, only the shallow ones0
I love how several guys are saying "Oh girls just have to look good, forget personality or you know anything that makes her human, as long as she has a hot body" and then they say it isn't fair and that we have it so easy because it's all we're judged on. Oh and don't forget that they are whining because we actually care enough to look beyond something as trivial as looks. If you don't like that we're only judged on looks, then grow up and start respecting yourself enough to find a girl who actually is entertaining, sweet, smart, and funny rather than hot, cute, pretty, etc.1
what about girls that aren't so hot?1
What Guys Said 3
It's simply the way we evolved.
And I think you're underestimating how much girls actually do to be attractive. It takes a lot of time, effort, willpower and money. They have to eat right and exercise daily, spend hours putting on makeup and doing their hair, spend a lot more than we do on clothes and cosmetics, etcetera... If it's between developing a sexy body and developing a sexy personality, I'll choose the sexy personality any day of the week.
Girls have to obsess over this crap every minute of everyday and we just have to work on our attitudes. Sounds to me like we got the better deal.
Not to mention that if both sexes were attracted visually we'd be sort of screwed as a species. The really beautiful people would mate, the average to ugly people would die alone. The sexes need to be complimentary in nature in order to continue to exist.2
Because us guys want a girl who will give us healthy children, we are looking for good genetics, meanwhile girls are looking for resources, it sucks, it's harsh, but it's reality.3
It's human nature. Women are drawn to men that can provide and support them (and a family). This goes back to when we were living in caves.3
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