Okay, so I'm talking with this guy. We really like each other, he's a great person, he's got a big heart, and he makes me feel great about myself. So the problem? He doesn't have any kind of future. He dropped out of college. He's in a band, but I'm pretty sure the band isn't going anywhere. He lives with his mom, and he works at a convenient store. Which doesn't really bring in much moola. I'm not a low person, I swear, it's just that I'm worried about the future for us if we get serious. I don't want to get into a serious relationship with someone who wouldn't be able to support me financially, you know?
So what are your opinions on this? Any response would be great, I just need some advice. Thanks!
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If I found a girl like the guy your describing I wouldn't be surprised if I married her. I grew up in a home with parents who together made over a hundred thousand a year and fought quite a lot. I can confidently say I would much rather be in an relationship with a incredible girl making $30,000 a year than with a normal one making $400,000. I understand your concern but as long as you get a decent job and spend your money wisely I think the two of you would be absolutely fine in the long run. You might not get to visit Paris on your tenth anniversary but you would still have a guy who is a great person, with a big heart, who makes you feel great about yourself.
I say give the guy a chance because it would be a tragedy to let someone with all these amazing traits go because of money.2