i don't want to seem too clingy or corny so I leave like a 10 min interval between texts. I notice that sometimes when I try to act more cute or flirty he doesn't seem too into it I don't know if its because he's busy or what.. ex: me- I wish you were here :( him- me too
his responses just seem so bored..
so my question is how do I text more like him?
he just left for vacation and text me this morning I'm gonna miss you boo :(
how should I respond?
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Honestly, like others have mentioned, texting is probably not the best way to communicate how you feel. It's mostly for quick messages. I get the feeling that maybe your guy doesn't know what to feel about a text that says you miss him. Maybe he has a hard time expressing himself and he feels that a text message isn't a good way for him to express himself to you?
I'd recommend you to call him or talk to him when you meet up again. Just let him know how you feel, that you think about him and appreciate him. It might also be a good idea to give him some space, but don't just stop texting him. You could call him and ask if he feels that he needs some space, or if something is on his mind that he finds difficult to tell you through texting. Let him know you're asking because you care about how he feels.
As other guys have mentioned, guys want their girls to be girls, which means we like that girls are sweet and gentle with us, and tell us they care about us and appreciate us. Some girls might get clingy (not saying you are, I don't know), but in that case you need to communicate and have the other person tell you how he feels.0