Ok we have been dating about a month now. She has been a waitress at a strip club before, but always talked about how bad she feels for the girls that have to strip. So she's been waiting on a loan from school which hasn't come in yet, and she's been job searching a ton, I've taken her to a few places for interviews myself.
So today she tells me she has no choice and she's disgusted with herself but she decided to start stripping to pay her bills for this month. She said she needs enough to pay the electric (tomorrow) and to pay for rent and tuition by august first. She said after that she's going to try to find a new job.
So here I am... dating a strripper, and I never thought I would be. When she told me I was kinda upset, but not nearly as much as I thought.
I guess I'm looking for advise on uhhhhh how to decide if I'm going to be OK with this and be able to handle it? I mean if she is OK with stripping for money... what else is she ganna do? can stripping for $$ turn into an addiction cause its so easy to make fast cash? should I worry about anything else or watch out for anything? I know someone out there has had stripper friends or girlfriends... or even stripped themselves... what should I expect?
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I would have the same problem with the situation as you do: "if she is OK with stripping for money... what else is she gonna do? Can stripping for $$ turn into an addiction cause its so easy to make fast cash?"
I'd have an additional problem: "If she's or gets used to the kind of money earned in the branch, how will she regard less earning people in a "straight job?" (I talked over the Internet with a few women having that kind of job (not striptease) and that kind of income and when they heard what a teacher's or a banker's salary is they laughed and considered themselves quite a lot "smarter".0