I think my last girlfriend was one of these women, and it is a terrible thing to do. A lot of guys take a long time to open up and when they do its a big deal. Please girls, don't screw us over and f*** us up! = (
I don't let it bother me. Ever heard a 35 year old drunk woman in a bar crying about "why can't I find a good guy?" Yeah... they make me smile because they wasted all their chances by being mean little ball busters. All you good girls who find yourselves good guys and treat them well are SMART.
for those of you saying a guy made the woman that way; which gender is best known for seeking out the lowlives of the other gender because they find it hot?
ladies, you seem to like bad boys. then when the bad boy is, well, bad, you act hurt and use it as justification for being a bitch to the next guy. you sought out the asshole, you stayed with him, and now you expect every other guy to make up for the last one.
Get some new friends in your life, quick. A healthy woman (or healthy man) doesn't take joy out of others torment and misery. Sounds really immature to me. No, it's not common. In people worth your time, anyway.
Yes. Mostly because they have been hurt themselves. When a woman is hurt and is yearning it's only natural for her to find happiness in someone's misfortune, especially if they are the ones causing it.
like someone already said - behind every bitch is a man who made her that way. maybe some really are cruel and hurt men for fun, but most women I know are just fed up with all the BS guys have put them through so now they're not as sensitive anymore and don't really care if they hurt guys in return, cause most guys have proven to us that they don't really have feelings anyway...
yeah actually my ex because an ass after me, so I do call myself a bitch because he became a jerk.
i treated him like sh*t in the end, I took him for granted. but I didn't do it on purpose, I did it for a number of reasons which he deserved and I had plenty of fun enjoying myself when he was in pain; because I didn't care anymore about his feelings. I put so much time into our relationship and all he gave was nothing in return of what I wanted. only what he wanted. so really I will enjoy a guys' pain..ONLY if he deserves it.
now you can rate me down and comment bad about me, but its my opinion and ill follow through it.
no its not normal. unless your just in a really messd up town. girls are expected to treat guys just as good as guys should girls. me myself personally. think girls should treat guys better because they are suppose to tke care of em.
its just like how some guys like to date many women. its like a "proving thing". they like to prove they have that kind of power over someone. like someone said before these kinda people have problems, including the guys.
Actually, there was this one guy who was telling me how much he enjoys pain and how he prefers to get crushed and walked on and stabbed as opposed to pleasures of sex. I'm guessing that's a VERY small number of men.