Is it common for women to like hurting men?

I've met several who gloat about it and brag about it! Just recently.


Most Helpful Guy

  • I think there are more and more such women everywhere. I step lightly around seeral women just where I work, they are like land mines. Emotionally AND physically!

    • Yea well behind every bitch there's a man who made her that way

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    • Ur right Kate!!!

    • Yeah "shes-a-lady", your answer really p*sses me off. I hope there aren't many women like you. Men are hurt all the time by women, you need to buck up.

What Guys Said 11

  • If they like it, how bad can it really be? The really bad stuff is when everyone feels helpless.

  • I think my last girlfriend was one of these women, and it is a terrible thing to do. A lot of guys take a long time to open up and when they do its a big deal. Please girls, don't screw us over and f*** us up! = (

  • I don't let it bother me. Ever heard a 35 year old drunk woman in a bar crying about "why can't I find a good guy?" Yeah... they make me smile because they wasted all their chances by being mean little ball busters. All you good girls who find yourselves good guys and treat them well are SMART.

  • Yes, there are quite a number on the site who admit this...ask advice onhw to do it!

    ANd I've met them in the work world...some who are really good at it!

  • i know I'm late t the party but in my experience yes it is, many seem to get some kind of mid evil thrill form it.

  • I wouldn't know what to do with a woman that treated me good

  • many maNY MANY& still many of such bitches are everywhere

  • Some girls think it's hilarious to give a guy blue balls. It's kind of disrespectful.

  • for those of you saying a guy made the woman that way; which gender is best known for seeking out the lowlives of the other gender because they find it hot?

    ladies, you seem to like bad boys. then when the bad boy is, well, bad, you act hurt and use it as justification for being a bitch to the next guy. you sought out the asshole, you stayed with him, and now you expect every other guy to make up for the last one.

    its pure bs.

  • Feminists, misadrists its a hobby for some or maybe just acting out of hurt... girls love the drama...


What Girls Said 15

  • no it's wrong. to hurt anyone is wrong for no reason is pretty pathetic. it's violence.

  • Get some new friends in your life, quick. A healthy woman (or healthy man) doesn't take joy out of others torment and misery. Sounds really immature to me. No, it's not common. In people worth your time, anyway.

  • Yes. Mostly because they have been hurt themselves. When a woman is hurt and is yearning it's only natural for her to find happiness in someone's misfortune, especially if they are the ones causing it.

  • Women brag about it cause to men we're weak fragile individuals. So when we hurt a guy or beat them it's enjoyable

    • I also find it enjoyable to phsyically beat on women. Its very euphoric. I love the experience of hurting women in this way. Can't wait till I get a wife down the road

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    • No that's just a stupid bitch that doesn't know how to fight back

    • Roflmao chief . win.

  • like someone already said - behind every bitch is a man who made her that way. maybe some really are cruel and hurt men for fun, but most women I know are just fed up with all the BS guys have put them through so now they're not as sensitive anymore and don't really care if they hurt guys in return, cause most guys have proven to us that they don't really have feelings anyway...

    • Damn, most guys? lol

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    • And since women choose the man they are with it would seem that their own bad choices in life lead them to being a bitch. SO my logic wins because I have flawless logic. flawless.

    • Sure, but behind most bastards is a woman that's been a bitch

  • yeah actually my ex because an ass after me, so I do call myself a bitch because he became a jerk.

    i treated him like sh*t in the end, I took him for granted. but I didn't do it on purpose, I did it for a number of reasons which he deserved and I had plenty of fun enjoying myself when he was in pain; because I didn't care anymore about his feelings. I put so much time into our relationship and all he gave was nothing in return of what I wanted. only what he wanted. so really I will enjoy a guys' pain..ONLY if he deserves it.

    now you can rate me down and comment bad about me, but its my opinion and ill follow through it.

    • No, I'm not going to rate yu down....sometimes there's a reason for some women to be hurtful whenever they can.

  • Yes. It is quite common and I know a few friends who love to, ( in their words ) destroy men. I would do my best to steer away from them, they most likely have issues with themselves or men.

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    • How can you tell them apart.

    • Tell who apart? The girls who like to hurt vs. the ones who want a relationship? I have no earthly idea, lol. I guess it can be obvious at times.

  • They must be very insecure from past experiences with certain men who treated them poorly. This way, they get even, but with the wrong person!

  • haha its entertaining.. but hurting someone is terrible.. -karma believer lol

  • yea, if you've been hurt in the past...sure.

  • omg I've had a number of circumstances where I've unintentionally hurt guys and I feel terrible for it :(

  • no its not normal. unless your just in a really messd up town. girls are expected to treat guys just as good as guys should girls. me myself personally. think girls should treat guys better because they are suppose to tke care of em.

  • those are called bitches lol...they live off drama.

  • its just like how some guys like to date many women. its like a "proving thing". they like to prove they have that kind of power over someone. like someone said before these kinda people have problems, including the guys.

  • Actually, there was this one guy who was telling me how much he enjoys pain and how he prefers to get crushed and walked on and stabbed as opposed to pleasures of sex. I'm guessing that's a VERY small number of men.