So I messaged 62 girls. Basically went off spamming a ton that have been on recently and none of them responded. Is it really that hard? I expected at least a couple out of such a huge number of girls. Or am I really that gross or unappealing?
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Hm ... that's odd.
I know it's disheartening, but don't quit. It depends what you wrote to these girls ... online at least, humour and the way you write make more of an impression than a couple of your pictures. It was probably too general and /or they had a lot of boys message them similarly.
My advice is - take a bit of a break and get back your confidence by doing what you're really good at or what you enjoy doing. Watch comedies and remember a few lines, feel positive and funny and it will certainly show when you message someone.
After that, just remember to first find out as much as you can about a particular girl you want to "woo". :) Then use it to write her a short, but somewhat personal and good-natured message. That seems to work. If you need some advice, search for funny messages online and things like that. But don't change yourself or pretend to be someone you aren't. You're looking for a girl that will accept you the way you are, and you WILL. I promise.
Don't let this get to you! And, importantly, don't take a non-response too seriously. It happens to all of us. It's also easy to find someone right for you online, you just have to be specific and pick a good site (not necessarily a dating site at all ... social ones tend to be better).
But don't do it until you feel good enough about yourself. Good luck, mate! =)1