I am a single dad and share my kids with the mother. Although there is very limited contact between me and her, it still kinda becomes a problem. I know most people say that their own kids are beautiful, but when everyone tells me my kids are the most beautiful kids they have ever seen, that speaks a lot. So I see me with my kids are an amazing package for someone. Now don't get me wrong I know a lot of single women don't want to become an instant mother, but that isn't how it would be with me. I'm a single dad before they came into my life so there isn't any emphasis for them to be an instant parent. Also I know a lot of women have a hard time accepting the fact it won't be the guys first kid let alone it won't be as special if it was her and his first kid. I'm just curious is there anything to be done about this or is it literally something I will forever have to deal with?
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I feel your pain! ...I'm 26 single parent with 2 little boys. I can't get along with their dad for the life of me, therefore there is little contact. I don't really know how to give you the answer you are looking for. I guess I haven't had a problem really meeting guys as much as getting them to want to continue seeing me. I've heard that I try to hard. ...In my defense though, it is rare that I find someone that amazingly attracts me to them! lol. You know, just be yourself, and take care of your kids. You're still single because God's going to send you someone amazingli special. Just be patient. You and your kids are an amazing package, and it wouldn't be anything less without the perfect woman that fits in with you and your kids. GL! :)0