A lot of old fashioned Bengalis stress that marriage is the "sole purpose" of a girl's life, then her career, blah blah blah. Thank GOODNESS my parents aren't like that, I'd have to shoot myself.
Anyway, do you guys think that the person you're seeing right now is the person you'll eventually marry? I can't even think about that stuff because it just feels weird to be thinking about marriage at such a young age. I'm having fun right now and commitment is the last thing I want, although one day it would definitely be nice to have a family.
So do you guys automatically think about "marrying" a girl/guy when you start dating them? This is how most people from my country are and it's SO ANNOYING. They even discourage dating but if one were to "date" then they'd have to think about marriage and crap like that too.
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Some people are still old fashion, a lot of girls still want their fairytale. I don't even want to think about marriage! I think it's stupid to think about it till you actually become who you are. The odds of you ending up with a high school sweet heart is rare. You haven't even met anyone yet. I've had someone argue that if you keep waiting for something better you won't end up with anyone. But I'm not saying you should wait till after college or whatever you do because you might find someone better it's because you don't know who you are! Like think about how you were in grade nine compared how you were in grade 12 or whatever you've completely changed and in college you learn who you are and what your becoming.0