this guy I've been seeing asked me to be his girlfriend. I have never been in a relationship before. I probably don't even know what to do as a girlfriend. am I supposed to call him more now? hanging out more? or cook for him? I have NO CLUE.
im kinda afraid of commitment (not because I want other guys but the idea of hanging out with someone all the time can be boring.)
so yeah girls, what do you do as a girlfriends that make your boyfriends love you.
and guys, what do you like your girlfriends to do? (not just sexual stuff)
thanks for any input
Most Helpful Guy
first off just relax. it will be ok. here's what you do if you want to be the best girlfriend ever. #1. communicate with him. tell him this is your first rodeo. That's fair and honest and it's the right thing to do. Always be honest and talk about anything you want to talk about.
#2. communicate in a positive manner. make sure your both being truthful and respectful to each other. very important.
#3. be yourself. he wants to date the girl he met first. not the girl you think you have to turn into. it's like cinderella. I want the pumpkin, not the stagecoach.
#4. be honest, faithful, and treat him the way you would want to be treated. all I have ever asked of any woman is honesty and kindness. pretty easy, the rest will fall right into place. - j0