OK I recently met this christian guy for a coffee date. We hung out talking and window shopping. Its was really laid back, until he mentioned his one pet peeve is anyone who smokes. Well that was understandable until the end of our conversation. All he talked about how much he loved sex and wanted it a lot but refused to date anyone he went to church with. Needless to say the date was cute short on good terms. But seriously what was he thinking? Tell me his deal breaker for dating girls is if she smokes but yet he won't date from his own church cause he wants sex!
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A lot of people call themselves christian, yet do what they want to without regard to the teachings of the faith. People are weak and temptation is strong.
But yeah, I'm not here to judge, I don't find the fact that smoking is a deal breaker to be hypocritical, many non religious people will have smoking as a deal breaker, and I know many christians who smoke. I find the fact that he calls himself christian, yet compltly ignores the teachings to be hypocritical.
I understand if someone messes up or something, (I consider myself a devout christian and regrestfully am no longer a virgin), yet for them to go out of their way to find someone who will have lots of sex seems a bit rediculous and hypocritical to me.0