Are they just for losers who can't get anyone in real life? I know a girl I meet online for a while now and she said she would be open to trying it, but I don't know it just feels like I'm a loser because the only way I could get a girl to like me is over a computer. Also she lives like 800 miles away so I know we probably aren't going to get to see each other unless something happens. What do you think?
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I don't think that is the case .. online = losers in real life who can't get dates.
Don't get me wrong I used to think that! I see where you are coming from but sometimes you can connect with people in different ways in different settings. So, no I don't think that online relationships are bad BUT same kinda rules apply as getting a girl in real life (your phrase not mine). The girl has to be into it and be on the same page as far as what you each want out of it.
Eventually the distance can pose an issue if neither one of you wants to move or can make the trip to see each other on a regular basis.
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