For some reason I stay away from phone calls. I'm good with IM and texting but for some reason I never do phone calls. It's not that I don't care enough to call it's just texting is easier and I can be doing something else while texting.
Is calling that big of a deal to girls (even friends)?
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to some girls, phone calls ARE a big deal, because even though we know you care, we want you to show it. putting your life on hold just to hear our voice makes us feel more special than getting a text, because convenience might only appeal to one side. also, on the phone, awkward silences occur 9/10 phone calls, and you don't have much time to think about what you wanna say. as for texting and i/m, you can think about what you wanna say, and delete a message before you actually send it, so you won't end up saying the wrong thing. even though saying what comes to mind can cause a little commotion sometimes, it's more earnest, and some girls prefer that you speak your mind, rather than "think" your mind, if that makes any sense.. and awkward silences go away when someone starts a healthy, interesting conversation :)0