We went out tree times.
Every time we had a great time. And there are really a lot of signs which show that he likes me. I will not list them because story will be too long, but believe me there are a lot of them.
So.. In the end of our second date we hugged and he gave me a kiss quite close to the mouth. In the end of our third date he repeated this then I gave him a kiss on his lips and he gave me kiss back.
So this happen 2 days ago. And since then I haven't received any messages from him, which I think is weird, because if he likes me why he don't show me that he is thinking about me or something?
Well, we started flirting few mounts ago, he always write message back to me but he barely start to chat.
This were totally different in school when he always stopped me and we talk. But now are vacations and we can't see each other every day.
Well this guy is very shy, I needed a lot of time to come close to him and I maybe I believe he is to lazy to send something to girl who with who is just friend... But now there is something more between us and he still plays this game ?
And if the reason is still his shyness now he really hasn't got any causes to be scare about. I mean, we kissed! I think is clear that I'll not rejected him or something!
I don't know, I can't always start a conversation because I started to feel annoying. :/
I'll be glad if you answer.
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I agree the reason is not shyness. It could be that he is busy with his friends. Guys sometimes get into the fun mode and keep planning and doing things for days with other guys. Football, video games beach etc...
Two days is not a big deal... give I more couple of days... then call him and tell him that you were thinking of going to a party with friends and wanted him with you . ( Or any excuse that you too go out togeather with other people) . If he will agree then that is fine... when you meet him , joke around and smile and ask him where his mind was the past days ( with a smile) . If he says that he can't come then ask him why and ask him if he has something that is keeping him busy ?
If he says no he can't come to the party then go yourself there . Don't sit at home if he doesn't want to go . Because you show him that if he isn't serious about you .. may be you will meet other people who can be serious!
When you go out.. don't flirt with other boys or anything... it is just that you go out and live year life will make him think that you CAN find someone else if he is not serious. People love to be around people who are happy and have life going for them... if he knows that you are going to sit at home all the time thinking about him.. he will not care much to make effort... if he knows that you still care for him but at the same time you are not willing to let year life stop because he is not contacting you then he will think things over and start to think more serious about you .
As I said .. I don't think 2 days is a big deal. And I don't think it is a problem if you contact him.. it is a problam if you are always contacting him without him contacting you . If this is the case you must ask him why doesn't he do that ?1