Today I did something I probably shouldn't have done. Over the phone my girlfriend gave me the password to her e-mail because she needed to know something in it. After, I saw an e-mail from a guy that caught my eye.
I read it, then the host of e-mails going back and forth from the past. He keeps asking her if she's single yet. Although its not outright said, it seems to imply that if and when she breaks up with me, they're going to have sex right away.
The earliest e-mail, he talks about some teacher/rape fantasy, and talks about meeting for causal sex. My girlfriend turns him down based on the fact "you probably haven't been tested in a while and you're a whore". She also says she doesn't want to ruin what she has with me, but then goes on to say that she'll text him if she's free on Saturday.
I'm so confused because I can't tell when she's being serious and when she's joking.
He keeps e-mailing her every few months to see if she's single.
Should I be concerned about this?
Should I tell her what I did? Even though it was a whole invasion of her privacy?
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my advice is to confront her about it.. remember you have nothing to feel bad about.. if she cared and loved you she would have sent the guy 1 email.. and it would simply read
"STOP EMAILING ME, STOP CONTACTING ME"
tell her you noticed it on her email and you would like to know what the story is..