My best friend (girl) is awesome. we constantly hang out and she often flirts with her comments and body language. we've only kissed once and she always talks about me when she gets drunk which is very seldom. We never argue and always have stuff to talk about we never get the awkward silences. We both date around a little with other people but never get serious. she sometimes tries to hook me up with other people but she knows that it won't work out and when I do hang out with girls she act somewhat jealous. there's nothing really wrong with me in my opinion, I'm not a 10 out of 10 but I'm in the top of the pile and I'm not annoying or obsessive, I'm the chill kind of guy that leads a very active life and succeeds academically. She is the girl that hangs out with the popular people every now and then but doesn't enjoy it. She normally keeps to herself. She has just a handful of good friends and isn't bitchy. Her hobbies are similar to mine and I'm involved in about half of her everyday activities, not that we hang out everyday (2-3) times a week. I've been wanting to ask her out in a way that if she says no everything will be cool. We're such great friends but I don't want to miss out on what could be one of the best decisions I've ever made but it's also definitely not worth losing her as one of the most awesome people that I've ever met. How can I ask her or should I even ask her at all.?
Thanks a ton - anonymous billy bob
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Well I dated my best friend and I was totally in love with her. Well when we were very younger she always told me her dream was to be asked out in summer rain with a rose and so on. I waited until the right time and I did it. Went on the knee the whole nine yards.hehe. But what I am saying is that you know her and know what she likes. I say go for it. It could be the best move you ever make. If you don't you could live the rest of your life wondering. And believe me it ain't a nice feeling.
Best of luck dude!