Well, I had a relationship and the girl distrusted me and didn't believe that I actually loved her. Her loss, anyway we are friends now and she has always been complaining that I don't text her first. And we talk almost everyday; she texts me.
Anyway for me, I just don't do that period. It's been my lifestyle for a long way and works when I am single... However for relationships it seems it doesn't.
I want to know some girls opinions to someone you are attracted to not texting you.
It's so hard for me to believe that not initiating conversation makes the girl thinks "It makes me feel like he doesn't want to talk to me or interested. He doesn't want to be with me"
If it is, then wow... Give me a helmet and pull me in a wagon because that is some retarded idea. It makes it seem that when we hangout, all of that is negated; just because of the fact I didn't text you first. WOW!
Anyway, give me your input
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Lol well you basically already said that anyone who disagrees with your opinion is wrong and ignorant for thinking that way. But you asked for input anyway? Hmmm.
Anyway, I definitely think if a guy isn't initiating conversations with me then he's not that interested. Mostly because I've never in my life come across a guy that was really interested in me but never texted me. None of my friends have either. Plus it makes the girl feel like she's doing all the chasing. A little chasing is fine, but being the only one to chase makes women feel bad because it's not instinctual for us to do so. Even if you're hanging out with her, she'll ultimately think of you with a negative vibe attached because she's trying harder than you are to keep contact.
As for my personal honest opinion. If a guy I was attracted to didn't text me, I'd wonder about it for a day or 2, and then forget about him. I've had experiences with guys like that and we just don't end up getting along in any aspect of a relationship because I expect more. I end up feeling emotionally unsatisfied. So long story short, I wouldn't be attracted to that guy for long.
I'm sure you're going to complain now and tell me how stupid that is. But quite frankly, if you need women to do all the texting, you're showing that its important to you as well. What if a woman you were attracted to never texted you? I think you'd forget about her as well considering you need a woman to do it or you just never speak.0