Me and my ex split 4 months ago. He's been with his new girlfriend for 8 weeks on and off but every time he drops her home, he text's and rings me. Every time she pisses him off, he gets on the phone to me. We were so close when we were together and I still love him to bits. I'm not sure why he keeps texting me if he's got a new girlfriend?
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Depending on how long you two were together, you could still have a serious bond. Just because I know that a relationship isn't going to work out, and I leave, doesn't mean that I don't still have feelings for the person, or that their company and support doesn't make me feel better.
If you two had a good relationship, then you probably comforted each other through hard times, and I suppose that is what he is looking for now when he has trouble with his new girl.
Although, if you are not going to get back together, then you need to let him know that you can't be his 'life raft' and that talking to him like this is difficult for you.
Be straight with him, and stop talking to him about his new relationships. It's not healthy for you.2