To each their own but me and my ex had a special relationship. We even waited a year to have sex because we wanted it to mean something.
After 5 years, he broke up with me because he was depressed and "didn't have time for a relationship or gf"..
Next thing I know he is dating this girl, who has huge breasts and he is already sleeping with her less than 3 weeks after knowing her...
Did I just break the seal for him, and now he can sleep with heaps of other girls cos he lost his virginity to one who meant something?
Is it possible that he really likes her? or just her breasts?
btw, he also told me he was going to be really careful with his next relationship and take it slow...sif!
he's the one who wanted to wait before he lost his V plates...
we also did a lot of oral before having sex..
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I think he may have moved on emotionally a while before he actually ended things with you. there is know way you can tell if he is in it just for the t*ts but you can tell by the time... if he doesn't move on soon then its more then lust.
Now... as for breaking his seal... and telling you he will take it slow with the next... forget about it think WOW I was really lucky to have such a great first... now lets move on... not necessarily onto the next man, but there are other things you can do like work hard at a career and having financial stability...
Believe me when I say mr right will come your way and it will be when you least expect it.
Make sure you know what you want for your next relationship like... how he treats you respectfully.
And remember its time to have fun flirt dance and love like you've never been hurt!