I know this is a turnoff. What are things that make a guy seem to "try too hard"?
Most Helpful Guy
There are a lot of them but these are the ones that seem to ring true for nearly every girl"
When your first conversation is really long.
When you write on her wall/message/im her on facebook too much.
When you poke her on facebook.
When you try to get her to talk about sex.
When you ask her too many questions
When you try to make a joke but its not funny or cute.
When you talk about your "conquests"
When you insult her or give her a backhanded compliment in such an obvious way that you're only doing it because someone told you that's how you get girls.