My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago. I basically moved out quickly after as we were living together. We really haven't had much contact since the break up.
His birthday was about 2 weeks ago and I decided to call and wish him a happy birthday. I was expecting to leave a message but he actually picked up the phone. I kind of said a quick happy birthday and that I had to go.
My birthday was 4 days after his. He decided to text me a happy birthday from him and my former roommates. He also said that he hoped that I have a great year.
That has pretty much been the contact. I was just wondering that since he hasn't attempted to contact me in any way, does that mean he wants nothing to do with me now. That there is no chance of us ever getting back together?
P.S. It wasn't a bad break up, no one cheated. He said that he had some issues with himself that he couldn't work on and work on the relationship at the same time. We both cried the whole night and he kept saying he was sorry and didn't know what else to do.
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It is interesting to note that he 'had things to work' on but yet he couldn't keep his focus on the relationship between you and him. Sounds like he just wanted out. For the whole birthday thing, he sent you that text because you call him on his bday. He was just being respectful and nice. If he is making no contact with you at all and you guys didn't end on a bad note...that sounds like he is really trying to move on. He has gone the most mature way when it comes to break ups. But I wouldn't freak out so much because eventually...he will call or text you back to talk. When will that be? I have no clue. You shouldn't wait for it...keep your self busy and be happy. Take care.0