I have a best friend and we used to date 2 years ago. We broke up but we got over it and we have been good friends ever since. I have seen her get her heartbroken 3 times by the same guy and he dumped her recently. We have been spending a lot of time together doing things, watchin wrestling, playing video games etc. She flirts with me and tells me I look good and she misses me and lately I have been getting feelings back for her but she is completely beat over this guy plus I don't want to mess things up, but I want her to know that if she goes back with me than I will never hurt her like this other guy did. How do I go about this?
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I think the only thing you can do ( the wiser choice anyways) is be there for her. Its never good to put all your eggs in one basket and you CANT make her see how perfect you are for her , she has to realize that one herself. I know being around her and watching her get chewed out by the same guy over and over bothers you , but you have to wait until it REALLY starts bothering her. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say I don't think she and this guy may be done ( just being honest) she's hurting right now and suddenly single simply put she's on the rebound. However tomorrow is a different day be honest with yourself if that guy were to come back in the picture at this very moment would she not go back to him? ( the possibilities of that are endless) your not only looking at whether your putting a strain on a friendship , but also your feelings. Its too soon to pour your heart out I don't think your ready and I know there's a HUGE chance that she isn't either. You two like flirting and being around each other see where that goes . However keep in mind that just because she's hurting it doesn't mean your her answer for a cure ( hope you understand what I mean by that) she needs a time out right now , but if you really have to have her be honest with her. You just have to remember that right now doesn't mean forever.0