I found out via facebook pics that my boyfriend still hangs out with his ex on a trip to see his grandparents she joined him and she is really good friends with his family as she was his Girlfriend for 4 years. They joke on his facebook and she comments on it all the time. He has broken up with her because he caught her cheating on him with his best friend, but he has forgiven them both. My boyfriend told me that he has no contact with her and I was informed that he went on the trip alone. I have been with him for 7 months and we both truly love each other and he has cried many times when we argued. I have still not talked to him about the pics of the trip that I saw, and I am guessing he is not telling me to avoid an argument. I was thinking of contacting him tomorrow and asking him to explain in a nice way and not getting worked up about it. Is it normal for guys to go on trips with their ex and not have feelings there? Is it possible they are just friends and he is not telling me to not hurt me or complicate things? I need your input and especially from guys. thanks :)
- They are just friends, and she is friends with his grandparents its normal after 4 year she's like a family memberVote A
- He is probably still has feelings for her, or in a relationship with herVote B
- He is in a sexual relationship with her and wants her to feel specialVote C
- He loves both of you and cannot decide between youVote D
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It's hard to forget about someone you spent years with and bonded with. On that note, don't just assume the worst but just proceed with caution. Don't worry about the things he is doing. Worry about what this can do to you(at the end of the day, you are all that matters). Stay focused on your relationship with him instead of "their relationship". Be the best girlfriend a man can have, so he won't want to wonder about the ex or even cheat. Appreciate him and show him why he is with you and not her. This way he won't have to choose between the two of you. You make it clear to him that you are the better choice with your actions, instead of your words.