--I have been in my fair share of relationships in my 25 years. But this last break up is eating at me more than usual and I can't figure out why.
We split about a month ago and we only dated 3 months.
I can't stop waking up in the middle of the night thinking about this girl. 7 o'clock sharp every morning, never fails I wake up feel lost and smoke a cigarette and go back to bed. Today its about hit its tipping point tho. I can't stand it any longer and its not like it was a long relationship or anything really serious. But for some odd reason that baffles me I can't understand y I am this dysfunctional, this is never very hard for me. Those feelings normally pass after a week or so. And get better not worse, like this.
I haven't really had anything serious in the past two years been extremely cautious to get into anything again. And that's why I stepped out of this relationship too.
I guess I'm just stuck cause I really don't wanna b with her. But she won't quit running through my thoughts. But I know why I left and it wasn't anything serious just a character flaw I didn't like call me shallow I guess. I am not looking for perfect just not going to be blind folded to the things that can cause problems later.
What do I do?
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My guess is, it has something to do with the timing in your life. It's not about her, and it's not because you're going nuts or anything. It's just that maybe you're at a point in your life where you really do want a more serious relationship. She's just a symbol of a potential girlfriend in your mind, so it keeps bringing it up in your thoughts.0