That's what I hate about life in general, in dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, how come it's okay for a girl to need or want a boyfriend to complete her life, to validate her existence, but it's not okay for a guy to need or want a girlfriend to complete his life, validate his existence? This one guy wrote this to me, later on he p*ssed me off so much that I felt like punching his lights out, but I couldn't because it was on an online forum, he said "As for jumping in a relationship, try to get to the point where you don't validate yourself through a girlfriend, they kick ass, but you have all you need to be happy in yourself man."
Later then he said to me "*cking grow a pair. Seriously, man up. You need to have a spine, NO ONE respects a door mat, and you'll NEVER get a relationship without respect. Realize that YOU are in control of your own destiny and women don't OWE you sh*t, not a relationship, a bj, love, respect, sympathy, NONE of it.
You gotta EARN it. EARN it by realizing that you don't NEED to have a chick to validate your existence" Seriously, I hate and despise him with a huge passion, he thinks that I am not "Man enough", I don't have a grown pair of balls or a spine"
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Most modern people don't have quite this double standard any more..all of us need each other!There's nothing wrong with needing someone in yur life, regardless of your gender.0