I know most people say "I don't think he cares about himself blah blah blah" but I'm just wondering if any girls actually would give the guy a chance. He may have an amazing personality you know. I understand if you find it just disgusting. I don't see why you wouldn't.
I am an obese guy and I want to lose weight but I can't stand exercise and the horrible feeling I get from it. So I'm worried I'm destined to be alone.
- I would.Vote A
- I wouldn't.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
What's wrong with being obese? In the words of Gerard Butler in The Ugly Truth, "Nothing. Except no one wants to f*** it."
That may be a little extreme. If you're happy with your weight then that's fine. The trouble comes in when you set standards that you don't even hold yourself to. You probably wouldn't have trouble finding an obese woman to date/have sex with you. Usually the case is though, the obese person wants a person in better shape than them and claims to be unattracted to the other obese person. Thus saying you want others to lower their standards when you don't want to.
To put it plainly, if you're cool with being obese, then more power to ya! But if you're mostly trying to date people in better shape than yourself, you should probably work on it. You cannot expect people to be any less shallow than you are.