so basically after some time of putting together some facts or whatever of how girls like bad boys and how good guys are material for "settling down" (I also read an article suggesting this...), is it that bad boys behave in a way that is seen as datable but not ultimately marriage material, but good guys are seen as not datable yet somehow, serious relationship potential?
I don't really understand how that works or how that's even possible, because if you can seriously BE with someone, you should just as well be able to date them too. but is there any true to what I'm trying to say? Like are "relationships" in an entirely different league of their own compared to "dating" and in turn, good guys in an entirely different league of their own compared to bad boys?
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OK 1st, Understand this! The bad boys are Born Losers and frankly once a girls is seen with one, her prospects for the future are usually grim because a LOT of guys will no longer be attracted to her once they see her with the loser. "If that's what she's into than I'm Not interested." Yes, most women don't even realize the high price they pay for "Slumming". The other guys WILL take note and will have nothing to do with her. And a lot of them eventually do end up tying the knot with a certified a$$hole. We get what we deserve.
2nd. The last person on this site you should listen to is cuddlycarla. Everything she says is a complete myth (it contradicts about 2 centuries worth of anthropological research). I wonder if she's really a guy hater who wants guys to do the stupidest possible thing. Cavewoman? LOL give me a fu(king break!
3rd. There is a demographic or subgroup that has been around for centuries. This group is young men, usually quiet and usually ignored by women, well...some women...a lot of women no matter how good looking... BUT! The most intelligent and strong willed of these men often come to the conclusion that if someone is out there for them, they will find them. And, in the mean time WILL NOT spend another minute obsessing over girls. There is a lot to life other than dating/romance/love etc. etc. and this obsessing over immature little girl drama queens who adore the boy who makes them laugh is a grand waste of time, energy and emotion. THEY ARE SOOOO NOT WORTH IT!
Here's the BAD news for women!
4th. Please take heart in the fact that there is a growing number of these guys and joining them will grow your strength and maturity. Thank god not all women are boneheads and they WILL approach guys first. These women who have that courage also tend to be way ahead of the pack intellectually and many are not bad looking. Don't be afraid to be more of a new age guy who doesn't conform to ignorant concepts like cuddlycarla's. There is nothing wrong with showing your independence and focusing on the other aspects of life. Women will have to learn to come into the 21st century or they can settle down with the jerks.. You, on the other hand will find a completely new peace of mind by letting us women start doing some of the hard work.5