I was away to a music festival when it happened. She was drunk and her side of the story is a guy tried to kiss her and she backed off. Other peoples story was she kissed him (I don't know who to believe) When I found out I dumped her but after a while I have started to really miss her! We did have a talk and she was in floods of tears. I didn't want to take her back because "once a cheater, always a cheater" but as soon as I hugged her, I thought how much I missed her. I do believe she is overly sorry but whether I can trust her I don't know. Should I start meeting her again and see how it goes...or any advice please.
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When people break up in these sorts of situations, it generally means there was a lot of anger and upset. The best thing for a painful break-up, I find, is space. You need to let yourself get over that person to avoid being sucked in again. It's the same for both parties. The more you distance yourselves, the less chance your going to fall for one another again. Honestly, I wouldn't believe her. Being a girl myself I understand how our mind works ( in most cases). I have never cheated but I have lied about sexual encounters. People lie because they're afraid of the concequences, your girl was afraid of loosing you. She lied, your all hurt and now you want each other back. No good. You have to think of what caused her to do it. Alcohol? Lonliness? Lust? You want to be able to trust your partner if your away and they're lonely. You want to be able to trust them when they're under the influence. Or if they're just lusting. Once you can determine why she did it, then maybe you can figure out (by knowing her personality) if she would do it again. Personal opinion? It'll happen again. Maybe not with you, but it will. Cheaters do not retain trust.
So you can always remember and cherish the memories, just don't try to re-live them.
You'll find someone who won't have cheated on anyone.1