I like this girl and want to ask her to hangout, but she hasn't really ever brought up the idea. So just wondering if my boredom is causing me to not think rationally or is this actually a good idea?
I was thinking like just getting a bite to eat and shopping.
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Do you want to ask her out on a date or do you want to ask her out to just hang out as normal friends? If I were you, I would be very careful the way I ask her, with your wording and all. I had a similar situation happen to me. This guy I know from class texted me "Let's get together sometime, watch a movie or something" and I thought he was just asking to hang out as normal friends, but I wasn't sure because he wasn't blunt and straightforward on his intentions and that frustrated the hell out of me. I think if you want to ask her out on a date, you should be like "hey would you like to go out on a date sometime with me?" but if you are not attracted to her and not interested in her romantically, just be like "let's hang sometime and chill out buddy" or something like that so she knows that you don't want to date her and what your intetions are. Just be blunt and straightforward and just don't keep her guessing as to what your intentions are. good luck! :)1