OK so we have been flirting and and texting a little bit for the past week. Whenever she saw me passing by, she would call out my name and come talk to me. Yesterday I texted her and was like, we should hang out when we get back to college and she said "yeah for sure." So then I say "OK cool. I'll call you tomorrow sometime when I get back." and she didn't reply.
So I got back today, went on facebook for like 2 seconds, and saw she was online so she must have been by her computer in her dorm (I'm assuming she always has her phone on her like every other girl) so I think awesome, she's not doing anything so I can ask if she wants to grab dinner or something. So I call and...she doesn't pick up =/
Should I just wait for her to call back? Or try again? Or text her? Or should I wait until I have class with her on Wednesday and talk to her then?
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Simple rule - if you call and she doesn't answer, leave a voicemail telling her "Hey it's _____, calling to see if you'd be interested in doing/going _________ around 7pm, it's pretty cool. Hit me up if you want to go and if not, I'll talk to you later."
Simple easy voice mail. You need to have a reason for calling a girl so you can leave a voice mail like that on her phone. If you don't have a reason for calling, you'll just sound desperate. And if you don't leave a voice mail, she's going to think your call wasn't important and most likely won't call back.
Now, should you call her again? No. Should you text her? No. Should you wait until class and talk to her? Yes. Even if it's next week, wait wait wait. She's probably busy and doesn't have time for you right now. Happens all the time. Get used to it, go hang out with some other girls.0