Well, I talked to this girl. I think she's cool and pretty. We texted till about 12am the night before. It was about from 8pm-12am. So, I text her in the morning and say morning. Lol, she's this
beautiful cheerleader and she doesn't seem desperate. I play football and I sure know when they are sluts.
I'd like to hear both sides opinion.
Should I text her back in the day and how often? I don't want to seem desperate.
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Try to limit how often you communicate with her. Give her the gift of wanting you. It's fine if you bother are interested in each other but time apart gives you both time to appreciate the time together. Its like eating ice creme for every meal. It's delicious and you always want it but if you eat it too often you'll get sick of it. If you talk to girls too often you can come off a number of different ways. Clingy, needy, low self esteem, and uninteresting. Chicks like guys that are their own person and when you make them your life instead of including them as a part of it, in the long run you will suffer.
If you want her to get attracted and yearn to talk to you more, try hanging up early on phone calls, leaving some of her texts unanswered and sometimes going a day without saying anything. She'll be confused and want to figure you out. Of course, this is all during the dating phase. Once you're a couple, by all means, smother her with your love.0
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