YES or NO?
do you guys and girls reckon that if you sleep with someone on the first date it means "They are not the ones you would take home to meet the parents?"
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How and why?
That's a fairy-tale notion that is definitely only present in the minds of humans with a menstrual cycle. Men don't think about sh*t like that.
"Oh god! We had sex on the first date! I can't possibly bring her home now. What will my parents think when I go into great detail about our first date sex during our next family meeting? I can't possibly marry this woman now. She's just disqualified herself. I would be blushing and giggling at the alter. Surely the priest would catch on, look at her and call her a wh0re."
I'm pretty sure the only thing a guy would be thinking, is on top of being flattered, feeling good that she evidently really wants him sexually. (Unless she said something like, "omg! that was so good! It's been almost two years since I've had sex, I was starting to forget how good it felt. now get out of my house.")
I think the larger question is, what type of guy would actually want to have sex on the first date?
If a guy actually wants to have sex on the first date, is that really a date?
It's one thing if, for whatever reason, sex just happens, it just feels right and the two of you just go with it. But if the guy is seriously suggesting, implying, or flat out pushing things to go sexual, on the first date; then maybe he's just looking for sex, and not really looking for a relationship.
That's the whole point of a date right? To get to know the other person.
I think a guy who was thinking about taking a girl home in the first place, wouldn't want to have sex with her on the first date, even if she wanted to. (No, not because he wants to make sex special or more meaningful or to be respectful to her or B/S like that.) Simply because his intention is to find someone he wants to be in a relationship with. Sex is great, but he's looking to get to know her.
And even though guys know pretty much everything essential there is to know about someone pretty fast; I don't think guys are that fast; like, first date fast.2