My boyfriend is great, except for 2 things: he is not motivated to get a job, go to school, OR go out and do anything FUN. He is however sweet and faithful.
By "not go out and do anything fun" I mean in our 10 months of dating we have been out for dinner ONCE and out to the movies ONCE. We occasionally go out for coffee but that is IT.
I try and get him to go to concerts, events, exhibitions, and sometimes out for a drink but NOTHING.
I love him very much and I ask him to come out to things (sometimes just bring him there) and he is not interested. He says "than dump me if you don't like it" but I just really want to experience the best of life with him.
What do I do?
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Hehe, I know a lazy bastard when I see one (takes one to know one and all that). He's not going to change as long as he feels he can get away with staying the same. And he'll continue thinking he can get away with it for as long as you don't dump him, and perhaps even when you do.
I fear for you his "then dump me if you don't like it" statement is quite possibly your only option if you're unhappy with the current situation.0