OK me and this guy have been seeing each other for about two months.. were not dating but more like FWB. I just want opinions of others.. well this guy He is just amazing, He is a year out of a marriage where she cheated on him. they have a daughter together, whom I got to meet two days ago. Well today I was with a friend eating panda express at the mall, with a guy that is absolutely nuts about me, but I just see him as a friend, well then this guy I been fkn well he is divorced right? well I asked him one day "did you f*** her after she cheated?" out of curiosity. he said "no I wouldn't touch her if my d*** was on fire!" so well today at the mall me and this friend were having a great time, then I saw the guy I was fkn, he was at subway, with his ex wife and thier daughter. I freaked out and closed my panda box and said "lets go!" like oddly and fast. I felt awkward but still. They have shared custody of their daughter, and I know for a fact they are divorced because I was with him when he dropped his daughter off one day to her and then went to his place to chill. Well, am I overreacting? like maybe his daughter was crying wanting to go to subway with both of them? hmm I don't know. I don't know if maybe they were for the daughter, She wants him back I'm sure, he is an amazing guy. just the way he talks about her to me makes me think " He is never gonna go back to her!" anyways what do you think? thanks
Am I being weird? or overreacting?
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I completly agree with claire2007 . I know its hard to hear but he was married to her, and regardless of what he says or the emotions he shows to his ex wife, he was in love with her and his heart was broken and he does have feelings for her (but of course he's doing mind over heart, she cheated on him after all so of course his trust is broken and it'd going to be hard for him to say he has feelings for her ect. like I said she cheated on him, he wants to keep his dignity and doesn't want to face the truth.) It's only been a year since this happened and you got together with him far too quickly. I'm sorry about this but there has been cases (very rare) where I've witnessed where the rebound manages to hit a special place in the other person's heart, but that's very difficult to do, if you're going to attempt that maybe its best if you two are just friends first so he values you more than a girl who would sleep with hi, he's too preoccupied with getting rid of his thoughts about his ex by being focusing on being physically with you that he's missing who you are as a person.
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i think youyr his rebound and I think your playiong with fire to get involved with him just now. he is hurt and insecure and that's why he needs a no strings attached..he will never give you his heart or open up to you fully as he is only using you to make himself feel better..sorry I know he is prob a nice guy and prob don't even think like he is using you..but emotionally he is unavailable and you have to decide if you can cope with that..sounds like you might struggle xx take care x0
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