Are goodbye text to an ex a good idea?

Anonymous
Hi guys! I broke up with my boyfriend almost 3 weeks ago. One day he stopped calling or texting me back...when I finally got a hold of him he said his phone was disconnected. I asked him why he didn't call me from the land line that's in his room. He said point blank I just didn't want to deal with it. I was shocked because we hadn't argued in months. We were happy or so I thought. He told me he cared but not as much as he should. I feel used and abused and want to move on but feel like I need to tell him exactly how I feel in order to do so. I don't want to call because he won't answer. I want to text him that I miss him and that I care but I hate how played I feel because he led me on and made me fall in love with him when he knew deep down he could care less. is this a good idea? or will I look dumb and desperate. This guy is always used to getting his way and no one ever tells him how rude he can be.He always shrugs everything off and acts like he doesn't care about anything when deep down he does. Please advise guys?

ps. he's 26 years old and I'm 24 shouldn't he be more mature?
Are goodbye text to an ex a good idea?
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