Okay, obviously it's not my place to tell her to not date. I am worried though, especially since I found out that this isn't the first guy she's dated, but it being the first date she's told me about.
Girls, how worried should I be about her having sex with the guy? When can I reasonably start being worried? She doesn't talk to me about these things.
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It's great that you care about your sister and want to be there for her/want her to feel comfortable talking to you about these things.
The thing is, this is her life and her decisions. I wouldn't be suprised if she doesn't want to talk to you about who she dates or has sex with. Most girls don't look to their brothers for that kind of support.
All you can do (and should do, really) is to let her know that you're there for her if she ever has any boy problems, needs advice, or just needs someone to talk to---but do't be surprised if you're not the first person she goes to for these things.0