My Boyfriend has been out of town for almost a week. Last week I only got to see him for a few min before he left Fri.
We made a date for tonight before he left. He confirmed date Mon via text. Last night I text him good night see you after work tomorrow& got no answer. Sometimes he
doesn't answer when tired, but sometimes he doesn't answer when he thinks he can't keep a date too - so I wondered then.
Today, I went to work early so I could get off early ( as I usually do on days we have dates), so I could spend as much time with I'm as possible. I got of at 5:30 and texted him. No answer.10 min later I text again " I'm off work are you there love?".
He responds " I won't be home 'till 7 or 8".
I have to be home by 7:15 to take care of aging family member. He knows this.
Now I know he had to work. But wish he had let me know sometime today. That would be nice. Then part of me says "I made an effort to get off work early".
He is very bad at communication, bad about telling me things ahead of times and I know he is one of those guys who can only focus of one thing at a time.
I want to be a little annoyed at him right now - but am I wrong to feel that way?
This isn't the first time this has happened. I always let it slide and never get mad at him for missing dates.
Someone just tell me please - am I being stupid?
This week almost the same situation came about. Only this time he texted me to let me know he couldn't come and he would make it up to me.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes you should be upset.
It's not about him having to work or not or him being a "bad communicator".
The fact is that he's inconsiderate of you and your time.
It's up to you to make him see that this isn't acceptable. If he isn't willing to admit that you deserve respect, it may be time to move on to someone else.0