She and I did not date long. 4 months with a break the last 2 weeks before she sent a text saying its done where I responded with OK. Because if she doesn't want to be with me that's fine. But she called back an hour later but I couldn't talk at the time and I was very confused as to why she called me. she called me a few hours later very mad when I asked why she said she was upset with the way I spoke to her. Well I was confused I thought she wanted a break up but she callin me so quickly. She said she wasn't sure if she made the right choice. I was glad to hear it but I told her I can wait for you to figure it out. My plan was to let her tell me when she was ready to talk. But she has called me almost everyday to tell me how much she has been partying seemed like she is trying to get a rise out of me, which I haven't because its not my business since she's not my girlfriend. Yet she keeps tabs on me and asks me to be good, which I assume means don't see anyone else. This has been going on for 2 weeks. At times she tells me she misses me, but mostly the conversations are superficial and she just tells me how much fun she is having. At this point I am set on continuing to hold my ground and let her figure it out. But I'm worried she thinks I'm not just getting on with my life but MOVING ON which I'm not. I am happy to wait for her decision. Its just hard because she doesn't call to talk about the relationship just to talk. Should I just let it play out, do I ignore her, or do I reiterate once more where I stand then ignore or continue to take her phone calls?
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I'm astounded. You're level headed and handling this really well compared to other guys.
But she's the exact opposite of you. She is obsessed with drama and it's completely obvious. She wants to make you jealous, angry, whatever; and any girl who WANTS a guy to feel those emotions is obviously not worthy of anyone's time and attention. By showing off and telling you how much fun she's having, it's apparent she is much too immature to carry on a real relationship.
I suggest you stop waiting for her to make a decision and run away from her before these problems turn into bigger ones. Trust me, this is the kind of girl who will break up with you countless times just to try to get a rise out of you. And that's probably not the kind of relationship you want.
You can find a better girl. One who won't play mindgames with you. One who wants you to be just as happy as she is (or pretends to be, in this case). One who is mature enough to be clear with you instead of stringing you along 'till God knows when.0