every morning I get up an hour and a half before leaving the house to get ready. I shower, put make up on and put nice clothes on. not forget the perfume... when boys don't have anything to do but to shower... I mean as a girl I feel self conscious when I don't have make up on or not wearing the right clothes... do boys care? do you guys realize that a girl didn't wear make up a certain day, does she look worse without ? but I'm not talking about massive make up, just enough to look nice and fresh..
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Well I wouldn't say I just shower.
Guy's take care of them selves as well, I do the same as you do except put on make up lol
When I have longer hair I put gel in as well and that takes time to get it right. I do pick out nice clothes for me to wear to school. I wear cologne and make sure it goes on my pulse points to make sure it lasts through out the day. I get my eyebrows done (cleaned up not shaped)
I mean it's totally understandable that you feel that way. It sucks that girls have to go through that judgment, that's one of the reasons I get dressed up as well to even it out. Like I think it's no fair that girls have to do all of this just to feel pretty. Girls should feel pretty in the skin their in. They shouldn't be pressured by the media or feel self conscience.
Honestly, some guys care for the right reasons and the wrong reasons. Some guys will just be jerks about it and say hey man you saw that chick? She was hot! She was dressed like a sl*t, I'm totally gonna hit that! and so on. While good guys won't say anything but appreciate her for what she's wearing consider all the work she put in to getting ready every morning. If I see a girl has taken a lot of her time to get ready and looks nice today I always make sure to compliment her (Sometimes she takes it the wrong way so I just make sure to keep my intentions pure)
I don't care if she wears sweats with no make up on, I would only get annoyed when we're at a party and she wears sweats. I would like for her to wear sweats and no makeup because that's when she's really her and I can appreciate her for her.
Honestly I think make up can help a girl's appearance just so long as she knows her limits with it and knows how to apply it.
Because I saw a video by Michelle Phan and I saw all the makeup she put on and it seemed very minimal but it wasn't at all. She wore about 17 different items but it looked like she was wearing so little. Some girls do look better without makeup and some do look better with makeup. Which one do I prefer? I don't really care I would just say I would like either of them to appreciate what they look like without the makeup.