a lot of my girlfriends complain that
1. guys are douchebags
2. guys are never as sweet as they initially seem
3. guys are players
4. the guys they want aren't interested in them
I still have faith in men! Let me know how to prove them wrong!
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I think that one of the biggest problems lies in the fact that younger women want a man who can be exciting and something of a "bad boy" while still treating them like a princess. The truth is that there is NO SUCH THING as a guy who can be all of those things, unless he's only treating you nice with another motive in mind. Any guy who treats you nice and respectful and really cares for you will most likely be a little bit on the boring side and definately won't be a "bad boy". Girls need to realize that what you want when you're young isn't the same as what you NEED, and it usually takes a few bad relationships and heartbreaks before they realize this. Maybe in their late 20s and early 30s they'll start to realize that all those guys they turned down in their teens because they didn't tickle their sense of adventure were exactly the kind of man who's really going to give them what they need.
I guess a summary of what I'm trying to say is: Any girl who has a choice between a nice guy or a "bad boy"/"exciting" guy and doesn't choose the nice guy doesn't have any room to talk or anyone to complain about but themselves when things go bad. The simple truth is that guys who really can give a woman what she needs and treat her the way she should be treated aren't the ones girls wanna be with when they're young.1