My story is long, but I will try to shorten it. This guy who some people I know claim they think he likes me, got my number off facebook (I didn't give it to him) and called me on his bday one day asking if I wanted to hang out with him at this hunting cabin we both go to on his bday (yeah I was shocked but glad). So we spent the entire day together talking, went out to eat, and getting to know each other. We leave, he gives me a hug/rubs my back, and says he will call me, I say yeah do. A week later he sends me a text saying, "Went fishing today and was thinking about you, hope you have a good day." I ended up calling him since my text wouldn't go through so he wouldn't think I was ignoring him.he told me to call him if I was going to be near a lake where he works (it's another county he had to relocate to for work related to law enforcement). So I call him when I am at this place, and he says ok I will call you tomorrow to see where you are.he doesn't call until 3 days later and says, "I will call you when I get out and come see your place" since he had to go do something with his job. Hours pass.I haven't heard from him, I was worried, so I called and left him a voicemail. He sends me a text saying "i had to go back to my town to help my partner.sorry I didn't make it out there.ill call you in a bit." Ok well I was mad that he didn't at least call me instead of making me sit there for hours waiting.he could have called me on the way back to his house right or at least sent me a text before I had to call? So he doesn't call until the next day, even though he said it would be a bit, and says he is sorry and explains where he had to go, but didn't explain why he didn't call on the way there. Anyway, he said to call him if I caught anything when I went fishing, but I didn't because I didn't want to be pushy. He said he is hanging out with his buddies this weekend, but I know some of them have girlfriends, so I don't know if he is just enjoying being a bachelor/being free or not. I feel like he is making excuses, but we had such a good time together, and everyone thinks he likes me since he asks about me, tells people to tell me hey, etc. and he spent is bday with me, so I am sooo confused/frustrated!
Do guys just not like to talk and want girls to call? Is he afraid of a commitment? Do yall think he is making excuses? What should I do? (Call, email him about how it went, or let him come to me?) Do you think he is interested? Why doesn't he call more or act so busy?!? PLEASE HELP! THANKS!
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Play it cool for awhile it's not like you guys have been dating forever or are the best of friends you don't want to keep calling him or he may think your to clingy. If you play it casual for a couple days if he doesn't call or text you than that's when you send a text asking him how his weekend was or leave him a voicemail that sounds like that. If he likes you he WILL call back and if he doesn't than just wait till he makes the next move. As for the busy part of his job don't ask him why he hasn't called he may get the impression that your the jealous type. so let everything pan out.0