I've never gotten a single reply from people I message. I don't send out pre-done messages. I read their profiles and discuss stuff specifically to them. I'm upbeat and usually crack a joke or two. Is there something in my profile that is turning people away?
Also, I've never gotten a message from anybody. I'm pretty active on the site. I go every day, rate people, check their profiles, message people and never get anything back. There has to be something I'm doing wrong.
(you may need to login to view the profile, I'm not sure)
Can somebody give me some tips on my OkCupid profile?
What Girls Said 1
You sound desperate really. You wrote 4 paragraphs about what you need in a girl for your "About ME." They don't know anything about you, just that you have a lot of standards but so far nothing to offer in return. Oh, and no girl wants to learn upfront that you need a girl to hold you when you're feeling vulnerable. It's too wimpy right away.0
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