Sounds like you both still have feelings for each other. Regardless of what she's saying, if she's tracking the girls you add on FB she's obviously still got feelings for you. But I'm sure she needs time to figure out what's right for her. She probably has indeed gone on dates but that doesn't mean you aren't the one on her mind. I don't know how long you were together but clearly you aren't over each other. I would say don't label the meeting as a date. Just take it as hanging out or coffee. By calling it a date that will set you up for "expectations". She'll end up expecting you to act like a boyfriend again even though you aren't together. Take things slow for now but definitely communicate with each other. Hopefully this will end in a reunion. Either way keep communication open and be clear with each other about what your relationship is so you both have a better idea of what to expect or not. Good luck.
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The key comment in this very long dissertation of you trying to justify your actions is:
...me adding girls to facebook etc. ...I just said not to worry about that...
What she is really saying is, "You should not be trying to get back together with me if you are seeing other girls, because then you are just not being sincere with me." Your dismissive comment indicates that her concerns are certainly well founded as you exhibited a dismissive attitude about her feelings.
Anyway...that said...Honey, if you want this girl 'buy her a ring and ask her to marry you.' YES. I said that...Buy Her A Ring! You need to s*** or get off the pot right now! If you love this girl and really want her you need to let her know in no uncertain terms. If not you need to COMPLETELY let her go.
Well if you won't my opinion I think you blow it, you had your chance to have a life with this girl but you hesitated nd now you have lost her I'm sorry to say but I'm just being straight out and getting to the point.
U gave her the idea that you wasn't going to move out nd stuff so why would she won't to wait around 4ever when she can find someone that does won't to have that life with her you no what I mean?
U say that you love her you should of showed that to her when you had the chance.
you should drop the "date". Just say let's hangout. just by naming it date its pressure on her. go hang out with her, show her a goodtime. Don't bring anything up about the relationship, or that you want her back or that you still love her. Just hang out like the old days and I guarantee you the feeelings are going to come back flooding her heart. DONT PRESSURE her, that's going to push her away. You will be fine. If she didn't want anything to do with you, she would ve cut off all lines of communications. I can say that you headed in the right directions but anything you do can F up what has been built, So watch what you say and do. She may tell you that you 2 are just friends, don't worry about that. your main focus should be to get that spark , that feeling of wanting to be with you all day!
Good Luck!
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It sounds like she has moved on. It happens sometimes, it doesn't mean anything about you, people just grow apart. But if you truly believe she is the one, tell her. If she feels the same, she will let you know. But if she really has moved on, it is time for you to move on to, sorry. As that song said, everybody hurts...
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