My guy friend and I are slowly realizing that we both like each other. He usually calls or text first. But for 3 days he didn't contact me so I texted him first. And then he called me right away instead texting back.
Do guys like it when a girl calls/text first or is it better if you initiate it?
Does it seem needy and gives you the idea that you don't have to do any initiating because she called/texted first?
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taking initiative is basically an investment in someone. If a guy texts or calls first it's going to get old at some point because the guy is investing more than you are back into him. When people say 50/50 that's kind of what they mean. Guy contacts once (investment into you)... a few days later you should contact (investment in) him... Ideally anyways. 70/30 is cool to some, 60/40 is cool to some. Everyone has a place where they are more comfortable... Basically your feeling that out right now.0