Well, I worked with this girl not knowing anything about her. We exchanged glances, flirted casually, but never really went beyond there for a couple of weeks. One day out of the blue she asked me out for drinks with her friends and I went along. That night we had a really good time and we ended up watching tv, giving each other backrubs, and holding each other. The next morning we hugged.but I could tell by her body language that maybe she had a boyfriend, which when I called the next day I found out she was in a long-distance relationship.however, she is struggling with it and would totally date me if that wasn't the case.
My question is I know it is not logically possible to date her, but I haven't felt so strongly towards a woman on a first real encounter in such a long time, like years! I can't even think about dating anymore because I find myself really attracted to her in many ways. I want to be her friend, but I want to hold back other emotions as well because I don't want to be the jerk that breaks up her long-distance relationship or her rebound either. So, I know if we go out as friends, we will probably end up all over one another (especially if alcohol is involved) so, I want to stay away for awhile but I don't want to lose her.
Help me, I can't see clearly.
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I wouldn't stop hanging out with her. You can hang out with her, but make sure you don't put yourself in the situation where you might do something you'd regret. Let her know if possible when things are going too far because she has a boyfriend. Once she realizes that she can't do what she wants because of her boyfriend she might consider getting rid of him to see how things go with you.
So basically, be the "flirty friend" and only stay away if it seems like it's too hard to be with her because she's always taking things too far while having a boyfriend.0