So, I've been seeing someone for about four months now. I wouldn't say we were boyfriend/girlfriend type of deal, but genuinely enjoying each others company. We're "dating". He's been absolutely swamped at work, but we have still managed to keep contact through text a few times a week. I texted him last Thursday asking if he wanted to hang out that coming weekend. It's now Wednesday and I haven't heard from him. There was one other time that this happened. I texted him a few days later asking if he was okay. He apologized and said that work had become so stressful. I guess I'm just used to him texting me back within the hour.
Anyway, should I text him back or wait? I am a nearly 22 year old female and he just turned 26 a few months ago.
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Hi having same prob at the moment too and we're both inour 40's so age hasn't changed the situation! Not heard from my 'bf' in a month. He's a cop so very busy but always managed to stay in touch with each then it just stopped without warning when relationship was fine. The advice I've been given and my gut feeling tbh, is that he is taking the coward's way out and not endign the relationship properly for whatever reason. He has issues too I suppose. Texts take seconds, if they had the timein the past and now have stopped it just means they're not that interested any more or just lazy. I'm agirl and girls are good at texting, guys don't deal with it int he same way. I've had to look at myself and address my insecurities, having no contact from someone who previously texted you all the time makes you insecure regardless of your own baggage, the situation will do your head in. Take a step back as I am with my situation, you're still very young and there are plenty of guys out there that will treat you with respect. Hope that helps.0