This is something that's been bugging me for a while now.
I graduated from uni a year ago, I have lived in a little bachelor since then and I was comfortable with this until I met this guy I'm currently dating. I don't worry because he's said or done anything but because I'm suddenly super self conscious about myself. I haven't invited him in yet and he's never pressured me to.
If I've spent money on anything selfishly its clothing, so I'm fine with the way I dress, heh. Otherwise I've always just tried to work my way out of my student loans. I can't afford a bigger apartment or new furniture. I can't do anything about this.
Please help me out here, I'd appreciate it if you'd share your thoughts.
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no, money does not define who you are. if you work and keep yourself supported then that should be good enough. material items are not important, when I have extra money(which isn't often) I usually buy books.2