so pretty much..my ex and I go back to when I was 15 and just today he got married to a girl he was talking to, dating, and everything within less than a month. we were engaged we have huge history but randomly he gets back with his ex on cot 4th and today they're married. he was JUST talking to me the 23rd about how he missed me and wanted to see me and still felt like I was his. now that I'm REALLY hurt and absolutely crushed feeling like I've been left for another girl, I'm not sure if I want to even date anymore. there's this guy who's so sweet, really cute, I think he's interested in me but I'm scared. I told myself I'll never get married, never date again, never fall in love again because I don't ever want to feel what I'm feeling now EVER again. nobody should feel this kind of pain. I guess you'd have to know the history to understand maybe. well, what can I do?any advice?
Scared to date because of my ex?
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my friend is in a similar situation to this.
Her and a guy went through so much. Like pretty much everyone in their family knew they were going to get married and such but now out of the blue he's marrying this other girl at the end of Nov. She is obviously heartbroken and I try to make her feel better but she's still in a slump and try for her to focus on other things but she's always focuses on him and nothing but him and has the mind set of her not being happy and never marrying and being depressed all her life. I try and try to make her feel better but she won't accept anything I tell her.
Obviously you don't want to be like this girl, you should go out and enjoy life and go for that one guy, because you never know that one guy might make you feel even BETTER than the last guy. And I'm sure you don't want to miss that.
It's normal to feel upset, sad and depressed about this dilemma. It's expected for you to feel this way. But the important thing is to not stay in that slump and to always remember that you're better than that and no matter what happened in your past you will always come out on top and find love again.
You shouldn't let your past experiences ruin your future experiences.
No man is worth your tears, and the one who is will never make you cry.
The best way to love is to love like you have never been hurt0
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Very horrible situation.
The guy (as strong as your feelings are for him) is a schmuck. Look, I am a huge ass, and I think what he did was awful.
Would you rather have gotten married to this guy after you have seen his true colors? You should be laughing and feel sorry for the girl he actually married.
It sucks, but life goes on. You will eventually get over it and be glad it worked out this way.. Try not to mope around and think about it. Go out with your friends, meet people, enjoy life.0
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