well for me when I see girl that looks stunning I think wow she must have a lot of guys after her cause I'm probably not the only guy who thinks she's really attractive. And a lot of guys must be talking to her so I don't know where I would stand within all those other guys. And like the other guy said she has many options, so I don't wanna just be her toy and when she's done with me go on to the next guy. So I would say it's more of a thing of me saying I'm not good enough and dealing with my insecurities.
Obviously not all girls are like this and its a generalization but still I guess it's just the chance of being rejected and being only a number in her phone isn't that ideal.
It could also be a thing of me not being good enough for her.
What we all said is all judging but I guess our experiences have made us think like this.
We all judge but if you think about it. We've been judging since we were born. Just judging in a different manner.
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Too pretty, out of my league, etc. is really easy to be. For me any girl I consider attractive I say is too pretty because I'm fat and ugly. Basically being a pretty girl you're going to intimidate a lot of guys. So you're going to have to be putting in the extra effort possibly because guys will be afraid of you turning them down. There is an in-between too that's "just right" it's not just an all or nothing option for looks.
As for what exactly is too pretty, that will be different for every single guy.
Um, I think you're looking at it the wrong way. It's not that the girl is "too pretty", it's just more so that a guy thinks he wouldn't be what she's looking for. From what I've noticed, most guys not only base this perception on a girl's physical appearance but also on how the people around her respond to her. Classic example is the "popular girl" in high school, most of the time this girl was mediocre looking but because everyone else hyped her up so much most guys didn't think they stood a chance cause she could have any guy she wanted.
Long story short, from my understanding (haha cause I'm not a guy so I guess I'll never know for sure), "too pretty" is just another way of saying "intimidating" :)
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Once you have a guy, there is no such thing as too pretty. Looks can effect a guys mental state when he's approaching you to talk to you, but after that it goes away.
That being said, there is no such thing as too pretty, that's like saying someone is too awesome.
And if either of those girls are you, then you have nothing to worry about.in my opinion and observation and a little experience...its just with some guys. hott/beautiful girls are out of our leaque and some of us know that these hott/beautiful girls etc have "options in life" and they will leave anytime for another guy plus a lot of these girls are stuckup too or taken by those so called alpha males like jocks and such ... plus some of us shy guys prefur them types of girls to choose us and make the first move etc
well they just say that cause they are nervous and shy
i can say although I'm shy
and if a super pretty girl comes by I feel it worse
but its just cause they have been hurt before (who hasent rejection is trama)
if your the pretty girl then id say cut the nigga a break and introduce yourself
or even if your not pretty type id say cut the nigga a break
we don't get approached much
and it would be nice
it would be more then nice actuallyIt sounds like an attitude thing rather than physical looks per se. My friend who looks superhot but in person unapproachable remains... unapproachable to the average Joe. I mean, human beings are social creatures afterall. She tends to get hit on by cocky or obnoxious guys, and she often ends up asking unsatisfied in the relationship. Compared to another friend of mine - she's cute, and she's really personable. Man you won't believe how many guys are crazy about her.
I tend to avoid the really pretty/popular girls. Not that they're bad people, I just go for the nicer/cute type of girls. I have this stereotypical mindset that girls who are prettier than others are higher maintenance and are more bitchy. It's also possible that a guy decides a girl is 'out of his league' and then chooses not to go for her.
I don't think so..
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