I'm assuming that you've never met before in real life? I personally met my current boyfriend online. We talked every single day for 4-5 hours for a month before we met in person (for the record, it was during the summer and I had nothing better to do with my time so us talking so much was aok.) Anyway, as much s you say you don't want to hear how bad of an idea it is to have an online relationship, I personally can't imagine having a purely online relationship. We do live about an hour from each other... since I am always so busy with school and he's always busy with work, we don't get to see each other as often as normal couples. Even so, we make it a point to see each other at least every other weekend (with me either going to spend the weekend with him or him coming to see me at school for the day, since he doesn't like sleeping over since I have a roommate.) The days that we don't see each other, we talk for an hour or two, whether it be sporadic texting throughout the day or an aim convo or talking on the telephone.
Through lots of bad romantic experiences, I have figured out that my number one dating rule is to let the boy come to you, not the other way around. If he wants to talk to you, he's going to talk to you. If he wants to see you, he's going to fight tooth and nail to see you. I know this rule is sexist, but seriously, think about it, it works, as annoying as it maybe be. That's not to say that a little "Hey, I'm just thinking about you" text isn't OK every once in a while, but he should be making the effort. You're worth it!
Now, my point of all of this basically is that if he's not even trying to talking to you, it's probably because he doesn't want to. I mean, you don't even see him in person... for all you know, he has a real-life girlfriend and he was just online screwing with your mind. Just leave him alone. I think your best bet is to just move on and find someone that you can see and touch and feel in real life. It'll make you happier in the long run, I would know.
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he's being hot/cold...you are also being the same...together you are playing each other off different wavelengths...you both need to get back in synch...communicate like chess, you make a move then wait...he will make a move eventually...if no move, then it's definitely over...also consider the next time you are both talking to figure out how often you plan on talking to each other whether daily or weekly or longer
he has a tummy ache from eating too much candy...take that for an analogy as to the notion of "we used to talk a lot"...has he found new candy or is he bored with his old favorite candy?
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calm down girl, he will text you, there is a reason why he is your boyfriend , but he is not obligeded to text you every hour, he still has his own life going on and just do your thing and let him do his, he will text you if he has time
also you don't have to text everyday with him , it's so much nicer to talk in person tham text every little thing that just happened :) but just my opinionThat would be 'past'.
All that description isn't necessary - he's just fed up with all the drama. You need to understand that guys just aren't into all that. Consider your relationship has imploded and move on with your life. If he contacts you then take it from there. Otherwise don't expect to hear from him.
If you want clarity you could always call him or meet up with him face to face - the texting thing is a fail for a lot of reasons.Okay i saw what that other guy said about him cheating and how all guys do this and have fake contacts, you need to go through his phone, etc. etc., i honestly thought it was a joke cause its so ridiculous. I love my girlfriend very much as well and would never cheat, but sometimes i forget to text back and i look on insta just automatically. My point is, dont turn this into something it isn't. Just cause he doesn't text back within 3 hours, doesn't mean something about your relationship.
He sounds really immature. Just text him explaining why the rumour isn't true and tell him that if he doesn't respond you're going to break up with him.
Ok I'm going to point the finger at very one here! 1 your brother sounds rude, he should mind his own business! 2 your boyfriend shouldn't keep you out at 3am at night and 3 keep your phone charged
do you want it to get boring? try NOT to make a habit of talking constantly / texting everyday or every couple hours. Maybe the conversation wasn't very exciting?
Go and confront him face to face. That's pretty childish
Yes. He's cheating. 1 hrs 1/2 - 2 hrs is just too long. You should pop over and surprise the guy. Just to be sure.
So who told you what the brother said?
Could be that he's just tired of texting
Find out what your brother said to him.
tell him that if he keeps ignoring you it is over
Go to his house, and confront him
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